Saturday, February 12, 2011
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
insight
I dreamed of a wedding of elaborate elegance,
A church filled with family and friends.
I asked him what kind of a wedding he wished for,
He said one that would make me his wife.
~Author Unknown
aaawww..so sweet......owh..im so in such an engagement mood that every single sweet thing touched me deeply....well...it a big thing kot...plus it is once in your life...of course u will be extra careful n demanding here n then..n slalu jek nk emo2...haish.....the thing is..getting married is never an easy step...(except the fact that u cant wait till the big day coz u love him)..other than that it is hhmmphh...when people said marriage is like a contract between two people...i beg to disagree..they mite be right in one sense..but on the other hand..i saw marriage so far is like a merger between two families...your family n your family...
yes..when u are i a relationship..it is all about your lover n your own satisfaction...you can have a fight all day long or look at each other eyes for hours...but..the moment u guys decide to get married...there will be no more you n i..but..you,i n our family...yes!!it is...imagine..for 24 years u'll be living with your family..n now...u re about to change it..there will be extra plate on your table for dinner...there will be extra mug for tea ..n there will be extra person in your car..it sounds great but yet...it is more that that..it is how u have to face it....n how ure going to reconcile with one another...
parents....it is never an easy task to make them happy....we have to work so hard to impress both of our parents...his parent n mine...there were time when we feel like bursting but we choose to calm down..there were time when i feel to choke myself but we choose to let it be...its not about him n you anymore...now is the time about ourselves n our family...the hardest situation is when your parents want it to like this..but his parents want it the other way round..so question..how will you deal with this matter?????
but..the bottom line is...those incident keep u n your partner closer than ever..u will be more considerate about each other feeling n support each other even better...which i must say the best changes ever..
counting days..
best regards,
-me-
A church filled with family and friends.
I asked him what kind of a wedding he wished for,
He said one that would make me his wife.
~Author Unknown
aaawww..so sweet......owh..im so in such an engagement mood that every single sweet thing touched me deeply....well...it a big thing kot...plus it is once in your life...of course u will be extra careful n demanding here n then..n slalu jek nk emo2...haish.....the thing is..getting married is never an easy step...(except the fact that u cant wait till the big day coz u love him)..other than that it is hhmmphh...when people said marriage is like a contract between two people...i beg to disagree..they mite be right in one sense..but on the other hand..i saw marriage so far is like a merger between two families...your family n your family...
yes..when u are i a relationship..it is all about your lover n your own satisfaction...you can have a fight all day long or look at each other eyes for hours...but..the moment u guys decide to get married...there will be no more you n i..but..you,i n our family...yes!!it is...imagine..for 24 years u'll be living with your family..n now...u re about to change it..there will be extra plate on your table for dinner...there will be extra mug for tea ..n there will be extra person in your car..it sounds great but yet...it is more that that..it is how u have to face it....n how ure going to reconcile with one another...
parents....it is never an easy task to make them happy....we have to work so hard to impress both of our parents...his parent n mine...there were time when we feel like bursting but we choose to calm down..there were time when i feel to choke myself but we choose to let it be...its not about him n you anymore...now is the time about ourselves n our family...the hardest situation is when your parents want it to like this..but his parents want it the other way round..so question..how will you deal with this matter?????
but..the bottom line is...those incident keep u n your partner closer than ever..u will be more considerate about each other feeling n support each other even better...which i must say the best changes ever..
counting days..
best regards,
-me-
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