hye bee..
yeah..i know..it's been a while since my last time..anyway..its not dat i hate you or i dont want to keep in touch with you or share things with you..but there are things that i myself cant understand n thus i dont know how tosay it out loud to u or others..in short all i can say is that..we've been thru a really HARD time tis couple of weeks..however,despite of all the probs..i gess we faced it just fine...
bee..
happiness is maybe just a word..according to some..u can never pursue happiness..but it is the choice that u have to make on your own.no matter how bad the situation is,u are the one whose goin to make the choice...to be happy or not to be happy or to be happy or not to be happy..so even if u think that this is the end pf the world..u'll be happy if u want to...let the unhappy person creates thousands of excuses( i bet this group of ppl really good on it) not to be happy but u will be happy as u already make a choice..which i think a good decision..
so bee..how to achieve happiness??is it enuf just to make a choice???ok..here is some tips on how each one of u can try to be happy..remember..everyone deserve a happy and meaningful life...firstly,we must be content with what we have,dont ever start to question why we are like this or worse we start to use the words "IF"...well..if doesnt make u look good but hell..u make u feel worst coz u know u'll never get it..secondly..try to cultivate your happiness with others n nurture the realtionships..in other words..get along with your friends,partners an of course FAMILY...try simple simple things like watching movies,dinner,window shopping or picnic...sounds nice huh..ok...next..what we should do is not to try so hard to be happy,just let it happen..accept your current situation as it is n never push yourself to be better..in one word.."BE GRATEFUL"...heheh..well..people always forget that rite...another important ingredient to be happy is that we must stop thinking about the past and be realistic about the present..the problem with us is that we always think about this phrase "it is easy to forgive but not to forget"..well...its crap anyway coz..when u did not forget how on earth you can forgive it???i mean it works side by side..example..when we broke up..we always said "ok..its over now..its not your fault..i forgive you"..but the next thing u do is call your bff n start talking about your past relationship and here you go...u never actually forgive your ex...am i right??hahahha..well..it happens to me too btw...so..be grateful with what we have now..well..this is my tips anyway...what i did when my family n i having a problem just like before...i hope all of us will stay happy..n live happily ever after just like the disney princess...:))
the main thing is..every time we are facing with a problem..the first thing to do is to eliminate all that comes between u and the happiness..n u'll be just fine..*hugs*
p/s: i love you
my happiness
and i'm lucky coz he with me
yeah..i know..it's been a while since my last time..anyway..its not dat i hate you or i dont want to keep in touch with you or share things with you..but there are things that i myself cant understand n thus i dont know how tosay it out loud to u or others..in short all i can say is that..we've been thru a really HARD time tis couple of weeks..however,despite of all the probs..i gess we faced it just fine...
bee..
happiness is maybe just a word..according to some..u can never pursue happiness..but it is the choice that u have to make on your own.no matter how bad the situation is,u are the one whose goin to make the choice...to be happy or not to be happy or to be happy or not to be happy..so even if u think that this is the end pf the world..u'll be happy if u want to...let the unhappy person creates thousands of excuses( i bet this group of ppl really good on it) not to be happy but u will be happy as u already make a choice..which i think a good decision..
so bee..how to achieve happiness??is it enuf just to make a choice???ok..here is some tips on how each one of u can try to be happy..remember..everyone deserve a happy and meaningful life...firstly,we must be content with what we have,dont ever start to question why we are like this or worse we start to use the words "IF"...well..if doesnt make u look good but hell..u make u feel worst coz u know u'll never get it..secondly..try to cultivate your happiness with others n nurture the realtionships..in other words..get along with your friends,partners an of course FAMILY...try simple simple things like watching movies,dinner,window shopping or picnic...sounds nice huh..ok...next..what we should do is not to try so hard to be happy,just let it happen..accept your current situation as it is n never push yourself to be better..in one word.."BE GRATEFUL"...heheh..well..people always forget that rite...another important ingredient to be happy is that we must stop thinking about the past and be realistic about the present..the problem with us is that we always think about this phrase "it is easy to forgive but not to forget"..well...its crap anyway coz..when u did not forget how on earth you can forgive it???i mean it works side by side..example..when we broke up..we always said "ok..its over now..its not your fault..i forgive you"..but the next thing u do is call your bff n start talking about your past relationship and here you go...u never actually forgive your ex...am i right??hahahha..well..it happens to me too btw...so..be grateful with what we have now..well..this is my tips anyway...what i did when my family n i having a problem just like before...i hope all of us will stay happy..n live happily ever after just like the disney princess...:))
the main thing is..every time we are facing with a problem..the first thing to do is to eliminate all that comes between u and the happiness..n u'll be just fine..*hugs*
p/s: i love you
my happiness 
and i'm lucky coz he with me
